I let my phone die for one entire weekend without telling anyone — and the strange thing wasn’t who didn’t notice, it was realizing how many of my closest relationships had been running on something closer to maintenance than to actual presence
I let my phone die one Friday evening and, on a whim, decided not to charge it again until Monday. No grand digital-detox announcement, no warning anyone I was going off-grid. I simply let it run flat and left it face down on a shelf for two days, to see what would happen. The ob…